As 2020 is nearing its end, not very many people are sad to see it go. The challenges have been significant and to say we will go forward without scars from the wreckage would be unrealistic. Often, when times get tough, the brightest parts are simple ones: a smile, a warm wave from afar, a tiny act of kindness. This year has given me the gift of more time at home, and while that comes with a host of challenges, I am grateful for it!
When I look back on things that I hope I remember forever, it’s the tiniest moments in time that mean so much. Early on, school had canceled and suddenly my kiddos were home every minute of every day. So many people are still in that situation, or they are back home full time again. One day, the kids couldn’t stop laughing, and I asked why. They printed and cut out a tiny Danny DeVito face and put it on the coffee maker button that I use religiously twice per day (at least). The funny thing is, they had actually done this several days earlier, and I never noticed. Next, my husband found a Danny DeVito face on his charger: also unnoticed for days. We realized…he was everywhere. It was simple entertainment that brought us a lot of laughter. I mean, it’s Danny DeVito! We even found a pic of him on a picture in our living room looking like some sort of caveman…that one went unnoticed the longest. They are all still there because, amid strange chaos, this was light and laughter.
I hope when you think of this year, you reshape your thoughts to those types of moments…tiny ones. I had a call with one of our salespeople today. I have never met him, and we had the nicest conversation. We shared stories of a great leader we both know who has brought great insight to us both. This is a moment to savor. Come together and find tiny moments because they add up.
We had a Coffee Collaboration a couple of weeks ago. We started out by sharing favorite Thanksgiving food traditions. I cried, because it had been a busy week but, in this moment, we stopped, and shared stories and the human connection I had been craving. Laughter, smiles, fun and then idea sharing where I got to see the things that make each day so special- our people, doing their thing, helping one another, sharing and caring for the success of one other.
I hope that as you go into this holiday season, you take a moment to reflect. Find the good things and the bright spots from this unusual and challenging year. I hope you find areas you grew and new areas you’d like to strengthen in the future. Whatever it is, may you treasure the part of shaping you that it has played and keep your mindset a positive one.
I’m grateful to be a part of the Vernon family, one that has built a strong foundation for so many people to thrive for over one hundred years. At the heart of who we are is this: “Helping other businesses grow and prosper” (F.L. Vernon). I’m grateful for the chance to be part of that.